November 16, 2006

Aw! I’m finally getting to watch the Dancing*With*the*Stars season finale. Loving seeing all the contestants come back and dance. I think Mario and Karina are a couple, just a hunch. Not sure how I feel about Emmitt winning. I really liked him, but Mario was still a better dancer. Great show, though.

So, this is my hour or so of quiet time while the boys nap. I usually watch DVR’ed Rosie, er, I mean, The View. We had a bunch of bad weather with tornadoes and such around here this morning, though, so instead of “The View”, I have an hour of doppler radar shots, severe weather warnings, and weathermen salivating. I know people like, died, and stuff, but still.

Totally kidding.

Anyway, have you guys seen the View lately? I like Rosie on it, but sometimes she’s too dominating. Like when they did the scrapbooking segment a couple of weeks ago. She totally took over the whole thing and talked over the people that were supposed to be talking about it. She and Joy Behar get uncomfortably snarky with each other from time to time. I don’t mind Rosie asking challenging questions and stating her viewpoint, but sometimes it’s a little too much Rosie.

And finally, I totally need to boost my vocabulary. As I begin to write more, I realize that my pool of adjectives is quite limited: nice, cool, awesome, great, sweet . . . blech. Any suggestions?

A step in the right direction.

April 28, 2006

Part of learning to diet (especially when using the Weight*Watchers system) and also learning to cut spending is learning to make good decisions on the spot about whether to eat or not eat something or whether to buy or not buy something.

I dropped my kiddos off this morning so that I could have a couple of hours to get some things done. Almost acting on reflex, I turned the car towards Wal*mart. I do need underwear and bras, and I could just run and get those now, I thought.

But today was supposed to be a no-spending day, said the other side of my brain.

Yeah, but we did just get one of our tax refunds back and J’s paycheck will go in the account soon. I’ll be getting this stuff next week anyway. Why not just go ahead and get it now, I thought.

Usually, here is where I falter. Good logic, eh?

But this time another voice weighed in: “Well, why don’t you go to the library and return / check out books as planned, and then you can run home and get some laundry started. You need your black shirt for work tonight anyway.”

And I listened to this voice. And it felt so good not to waste my free time and money at the Wal*mart because we all know that I would have thought of a bazillion other little things that we needed that I should just go ahead and get since I’m here already.

I spent some time picking out books at the library for the boys and for myself. I love the library. It’s like shopping, except FREE! I went home and did some cleaning, vacuuming and got the laundry started. Plus, got to just chill out for a few minutes.

Hodge podge.

April 3, 2006

Woke up in the wee hours of the morning to a thunderstorm. A big one, too. It was awesome! Jim was awake too and we just laid there listening for either one of the boys to start squawking, but no peeps were made, that we could hear anyway. There’s really nothing like a good thunderstorm to get spring going.

Andrew had his 15 month check-up this morning. He hates, hates being laid down on the table even for height / weight / general poking and prodding. He knows whats coming. It’s so funny because Daniel never seemed to mind coming to the doctor or associate it with getting shots. Andrew sure does. And he gets so mad. He screeches like a mad wet hen. It’s kind of funny, actually — not the pain cry, but the mad cry.

Andrew has such a funny little personality. And Jim swears that he’s got athletic talent. He throws the ball like a champ. He likes to eat and will complain loudly if someone is eating something and not giving him any. Don’t take him out of his highchair before he’s done grazing either, or you will experience the wrath of Andrew. They told me at PMO today that he had gotten kind of fussy so they put him in a stroller and pushed him around. When it was lunch time, he didn’t want to get out of the stroller, so they just fed him while he sat in it.

Daniel had a break from preschool last week and apparently released a bunch of pent-up frustration there today. . . on everybody else. Lots of time-outs for Mr. Daniel.

This morning was really busy because I had to take Daniel to preschool, then take Andrew for his check-up, then drop him off at PMO, then go to a doc appt myself. By the time I finished dropping Andrew off, I had yogurt drink, blood stains, spit-up and snot on my clothes. Nice, hunh. Sad to say that I didn’t even really care. Whaddya gonna do?

One last story:
I was shopping for postcard in Chapel Hill and went into one of the T-shirt places on Franklin Street called something like “Shrunken Head.” I asked about postcard and was shown to the back by a friendly cashier. The postcards were more expensive there, but I appreciated the kindness and didn’t want to schlep back to the drugstore, so I picked out a few and headed to the counter to pay.

I did not have any cash on me and was planning to pay with my debit. An elderly man came up from the back to ring up my purchase. By newspaper clipping on the counter, I could tell that he was probably the original owner of the store and had been around for years and years. (I suspect the original name of the store was not “Shrunken Head”, just a guess.)

When I started to hand him my card, he said, “Oh, there’s a minimum to use your card.”

“I don’t have any cash,” I replied.

He then proceeded to ring me up and said, “You take the cards and bring me back the $2.09 when you have it.” He made a notation on the receipt and gave it to me.

“Nobody does that anymore, do they?” he said with a little grin.

I felt a little embarrassed, but took the cards, said thank you profusely and exited the store to find a bank machine.

I got $20 from the ATM, broke it for a drink at another store, and proceeded to take my $2.09 back to Mr. Henderson. As I walked in the store, he was walking out from the back, and because he walks kind of slowly (and because I was still kind of embarrassed), I waved to him and placed the money on the counter so he could see it and turned to go.

“No, you give it to me,” he said, continuing to walk to the front of the store.

“OK, sure,” I said, reaching to get the bills I had placed on the counter.

He was closer now and I handed him the money. “Here, you keep your dime,” he said.

“Ok.”

“Here, let me give you a hug. Have you had a hug today?” he says.

“Er, OK. Uh no, I haven’t had a hug but I could definitely use one,” I replied.

“I haven’t had a hug yet today either,” he says as he reaches out and hugs me.

“Been giving hugs for over 70 years,” he says and smiles.

How sweet and random was that? It still makes me smile to think about it.

Here’s a hug for you *hug* Maybe that will brighten your day a little.

Today\’s to do list

March 19, 2006
What I want to get done this afternoon:
 
1.  Type out my to do list — hey, I\’ve almost completed one thing on my list!
2.  Mop the bathroom floor and wipe down the toilet.  I tackled the counters, sinks, mirrors and tub and shower stall yesterday.  Yay, me!
3.  Post about adjusting to being an at-home wife as something separate and apart from being a mom.
4.  Post about haircuts yesterday, Andrew\’s 1st!
5.  Contemplate cutting down on my use of exclamation points.
6.   Take pics of swap items and post them. 
7.  Pick up clutter in our bedroom and dust.  Maybe even vaccuum.  Imagine that!
8.  Keep the loads of laundry going.  Still have load numbers 9, 10 and 11 to go.  It is doubtful that all will be folded and put away by the end of today though.
9.  Put MT swap package together.  Assess:  do I need to get something else to add to it tomorrow morning.  Get it ready to mail tomorrow morning.
10.  Put care package together for E & family which means finishing the details on the burp cloths.  Hand-sewing, ack.  Shouldn\’t take me too long, though and it\’ll feel good to finally get the box out of here.
 
This is my list apart from the usual daily activities of childcare, meal preparation, kitchen cleanup and what not, to the extent that I do that stuff since 1. I\’m not a very good housewife and 2. J is home today. :)
 
Oh, and go UNC! Playing today at 2:20 p.m.
 
So there you have it.
 
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