On the liturgical (church) calendar, we are entering the season of Advent. Advent is all about waiting. Waiting for Christ’s birth. Waiting for the time when He will return. Waiting with quiet anticipation.
The meaning and the spirit in which we can experience this season became very real to me two years ago when I was at the end of pregnancy with my second child. As preparations for Christmas whirled around me, it was all I could do to hoist myself off the couch, so I watched from the sidelines, relishing the opportunity to be a passive and quiet observer.
I would often sit with my hand on my stomach, a faraway half-smile on my face, I’m sure, pressing back softly against the the kicks and nudges coming from inside, wondering what he was going to be like, when he was going to arrive, trying to calm my concerns about the imminent birth, waiting.
What a powerful metaphor for what waiting during the Advent season can be like. We are doers, aren’t we? Running around, doing errands, meeting deadlines, checking things off the to-do list, unaccustomed to just, well, sitting . . . . waiting . . . . being . . . . existing in periods of quiet, still expectation.
The parallel between waiting for the birth of a child and the spirit of the Advent season was not lost on our associate pastor who had J and I do the reading for the first Sunday in Advent. Other pregnant couples in the church followed us over the next several weeks.
We celebrated Christmas, as usual, opening presents on Christmas morning. It was Daniel’s 2nd Christmas, but he was still a novice when it came to opening presents. Only 22 months old, he hadn’t really caught on to the whole tearing-the-wrapping-paper-off thing. But he soon did. He loved his new toy garage, and got lots of new cars and trucks.
A few days later, on the 29th, Andrew made his appearance, in under an hour from water breaking to delivery, I might add. An intense and overwhelming experience, but blessedly brief, compared to most, I think. And finally, our little guy was here.
That wait was over. Others continue. Some had just begun.
Let us wait, this Advent season, in quiet stillness and expectant wonder.